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F U BITCH
oolo oloo <--TEH MIDDLE FINGARS
YOU'RE A SHITTY PERSON AND AN EVEN SHITTIER MOTHER. I HOPE YOU FUCKING
CHOKE ON YOUR FOUL WEATHER TAO TE CHING PHILOSOPHIES. FEEL FREE TO PICK
AND CHOOSE THOSE EASTERN PHILOSOPHIES FOR YOUR MOOD, YOU FUCK. I HOPE
IT FEELS GOOD TO BE A SOCCER MOM MORE AND MORE IN YOUR OLD AGE. YOU'RE
GOING TO GO TO FUCKING SHIT ONCE I LEAVE YOUR HOUSE AND YOU HAVE
NOTHING TO COUNTER YOUR PSYCHOTIC REASONINGS.
There I finally said it! I feel better! No more bottling up my feelings
in the spirit of holding it in somehow makes me a better person for not
expressing anger.
September 2 2005, 13:00:00 UTC 6 years ago
You're gonna need a beverage for my ramblings.....
Doesn't it feel better? I used to be a bottler, but that didn't do me good. Shit'd just fester up and I'd end up holding a stupid grudge or something. Nowadays, I'm the type who'll fly off the handle for 30 seconds, get it all out of my system, then 5 minutes later feel fine.But, yeah, oftentimes moms can be ridiculously clingy; especially those for whom life is 100% their kids. For a mom to be truly psychologically healthy, she needs some "mom" time, grown-up time, and a hobby. There was a January issue of Time magazine where a group of really clingy moms went to the high school cafeteria to watch their kids eat because "it would be the last time the seniors would eat lunch together" and even when one kid approached his mom, admonished her for embarassing him, and told her to get a life, she countered with, "but dear, you ARE my life." Moms who are overly clingy with regards to their sons are pretty fucking frightening.
As chill as my mom is, there are times she still had some cognitive dissonance between the way things are done in the US vs. India. In India, yeah the kids go away to college but it's standard for adult children to live with the parents and take care of them as reciprocation for the parents' raising them. I know in orthdox Jewish cultures, sons have to live with mom until they get married. Whereas in the US, it's a bad thing to live with your folks (even though many people do it nowadays because living on one's own is pricey.)
But in those cases, the parents who don't respect that you're an adult and try to impose those childish rules on you like curfews or forbidding your 21+ kid to buy/drink alcohol (that happened to some of my friends) is pretty stupid. You can't squash an adult into a child to cling onto the last vestiges of when you were the one raising the kid and now it's his/her turn to raise him/herself and his/her family.
September 3 2005, 21:24:08 UTC 6 years ago
September 8 2005, 21:15:10 UTC 6 years ago
By the way, mind friending me?